Thank you for the reblog Secondlifeaddiction! :D
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Well said :)
Thank you Trefusisdesign! <3
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you’re welcome! :3 I did a few of them when I had some time the other day they were nice!! :)
Yay! Great! I will let the hunt runner know that things are going well. Keep an eye out for more hunts later on. :D
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Thank you for the reblog Talesfromasl! Hope you enjoy the hunt! :D
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Why Second Life is Not a Game #276
Let’s start with the day you create your avatar beginning with the links of what ever ‘keyword’ you may have searched or maybe an AD on some website. You clicked it. You clicked it for a reason, whether it be intrigue, wonder or just sheer boredom, you wanted to see what was the hype over this particular Virtual World. As one of the top Virtual Worlds, it stands on it’s own for interest by resident life and who doesn’t want to be apart of that? So you hit that orange-yellow button that reads “JOIN NOW, It’s fast, free and easy!” You think, ‘What’s the harm in that?’ and proceed without a second thought. After following the prompts, you are faced with the viewer screen that allows you to ‘login’ your avatar. You are then whisked away into what looks like a video game but is clearly far from it. Having to deal with the instructions as a, and I use only technical terms here, ‘newb’ you start to understand the movements and learn how to communicate with other residents in world.
Then you learn about ‘teleporting’ and that is when things take a turn. You start to encounter other, older residents, some who are willing to help others who are there to torment you for a few weeks as you learn the ropes. Yes this happens to literally everyone. Why? It is a form of initiation I guess, to see if you are cut out for what follows. But wait, you made a friend. Someone who was just as new as you, and you stick together for as long as you can to fight off the obstacles of Second Life and all that it has to offer. You find out about travel and exploration, shopping and hunting, partying and sex. Things seem to be great now that you have friends and have finally found a place that you just fit. Even if you use Second Life as a form of escape from your real life or just to chat with people you have never met or intend on meeting. As a huge virtual chat room, it takes the cake. It doesn’t have goals or level-ups, there are no trophies or winners and losers. It is just you, and your new found friends.
But then things take a turn for the worse. Drama follows, something went wrong with a new Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Friend/Virtual-Family-Member and you have no idea what to do. Leave? No you enjoy it way too much here, you now have a home, an inventory ready to explode and friends that know you better than your Real Life ones. So you Mute/Block/Erase the memory of the person who has jilted you and move on like the rest of the residents before you. As a community we all go through this experience, no one is left out of a little drama and hurt but there is an upside: Love. Love from your Virtual friends & family. It is what you craved in Real Life, attention from a loved one, someone to listen to your thoughts, wishes, and dreams while making you laugh to death all day long.
We all have said at one point, “I am leaving this place and never coming back!!!” but we miss it too much to actually stay away. Real Life one day will bring you back down and you will need a friend to pick you back up, then you remember the memories you have made in here and you log in sheepishly ashamed but you are forgiven and welcomed back with open arms.
There are no winners, there are no losers, just amazing residents who shape our visions of this World and the next.——-
-This is your girl, signing off and into world.
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kathrynookami reblogged your post: The Black Petticoat Hunt #268…
Thank you for reblogging this Kathrynookami! I hope you enjoy the hunt, lots of goodies in this one! Enjoy. :D
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hazycygnet reblogged your post: Thoughts on Gender-Bending in…
Thank you Hazycygnet! I know you have been commenting on this post on Facebook and I appreciate the reblog! Thank you! <3
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shaedynlee reblogged your post Thoughts on Gender-Bending in… and added:
If I nod any harder I’m going to knock my chin into my chest here. As long as people are good, kind, nice: I don’t judge…
Thank you so much Shaedynlee! Your confirmation on my thoughts makes me feel like I am not alone in my thoughts. LOL! (so to speak) I have been getting a lot of great feedback from this article and I appreciate it! Thank you for the reblog. <3
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Thank you for the reblog Xy-zee! I hope you enjoy the hunt and everything it has to offer! <3
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Nolly: I met this girl in that very sim. Didn’t talk to her partner as he had wandered off. It’s interesting to see what…
Thank you Nolly! I was so happy to have bumped into you there, you saved me from a lot of distress. LOL! I have been checking out you story and i’m liking it thus far. Keep up the good work and hope to see you in world again soon. <3
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![“Can’t Stop, Won’t Stop” #275
Holaaa Peapoders,
I think this was one of the busiest weekends I have had in quite some time but I do it all for you guys! So today we have quite a few FREE items scattered among the usual sale shop items (Like Pure Contagion). New releases from *Chandelle to satisfy your sexy as well as new hair that I am currently trying not to obsess over. So I hope you enjoy, and happy shopping!
{Outfit #1}
Shirt: *Chandelle - Shirt Kira {In White}Pants: *Chandelle - Short Jeans Kam #001 {In Dark Blue}Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thick}Teeth: [:TULI:] Parted Lips {In #2}Lipstick: Essences - Wednesday Lipsticks Pack 01 *Light Skin tones* {In #04 Matte}Shades: Izzie’s - 70s Sunglasses {In Black}Shoes: *Aly’s Shop* Studded Ankle Boots {In Realistic White Leather}Hair: Leverocci - Diva {In Blonde Valley}
{Outfit #2}
Hair: [taketomi] Chiyo {In Light Blonde 01}Shoes: Loordes of London for The Black Market - Burbleary Boots {In B&L}Necklace: **RE** LUX Celeste Set {Necklace Only} <FREE>Dress: Uber - Belle Dress <FREE>
{Outfit #3}
Headband: Xen’s Hats - Three Daisies BandJumper: (red)SAND FEME - The Bird <FREE>Shoes: Loordes of London - The Candy Collection {In Pastel Pink}Hair: Leverocci - Diva {In Blonde Valley}
{Outfit #4}
Shoes: Chez GiGi - Beaded Sandals {In Creme}Hair: [taketomi] Chiyo {In Light Blonde 01}Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin}Necklace: Baubles! for Pure Contagion - On The Scene {Necklace Only}Shorts: ShuShu - STEP UP Hot Pants <FREE>Shirt: ToXiC HiGh for Pure Contagion - Blouse {In Light Blue}
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“Can’t Stop, Won’t Stop” #275
Holaaa Peapoders,
I think this was one of the busiest weekends I have had in quite some time but I do it all for you guys! So today we have quite a few FREE items scattered among the usual sale shop items (Like Pure Contagion). New releases from *Chandelle to satisfy your sexy as well as new hair that I am currently trying not to obsess over. So I hope you enjoy, and happy shopping!
{Outfit #1}
Shirt: *Chandelle - Shirt Kira {In White}
Pants: *Chandelle - Short Jeans Kam #001 {In Dark Blue}
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thick}
Teeth: [:TULI:] Parted Lips {In #2}
Lipstick: Essences - Wednesday Lipsticks Pack 01 *Light Skin tones* {In #04 Matte}
Shades: Izzie’s - 70s Sunglasses {In Black}
Shoes: *Aly’s Shop* Studded Ankle Boots {In Realistic White Leather}
Hair: Leverocci - Diva {In Blonde Valley}{Outfit #2}
Hair: [taketomi] Chiyo {In Light Blonde 01}
Shoes: Loordes of London for The Black Market - Burbleary Boots {In B&L}
Necklace: **RE** LUX Celeste Set {Necklace Only} <FREE>
Dress: Uber - Belle Dress <FREE>{Outfit #3}
Headband: Xen’s Hats - Three Daisies Band
Jumper: (red)SAND FEME - The Bird <FREE>
Shoes: Loordes of London - The Candy Collection {In Pastel Pink}
Hair: Leverocci - Diva {In Blonde Valley}{Outfit #4}
Shoes: Chez GiGi - Beaded Sandals {In Creme}
Hair: [taketomi] Chiyo {In Light Blonde 01}
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin}
Necklace: Baubles! for Pure Contagion - On The Scene {Necklace Only}
Shorts: ShuShu - STEP UP Hot Pants <FREE>
Shirt: ToXiC HiGh for Pure Contagion - Blouse {In Light Blue}——-
-This is your girl signing off and into world. ^_*
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![“I Stay Down From Day One, So I Say…” #274
Holaaa Peapoders,
I have so much to share with you today so get a pen and paper for notes! At The Cosmopolitan Sale Room, they are having a massive sale through out and all items in store are for sale which are the majority of what I’m wearing, so I recommend checking it out BEFORE IT IS ALL GONE! You will be happy to see Loordes of London there and her offerings. Also Chandelle has this cute little dress/top that you can rock to bed or just talking around, with some pants hopefully…LOL! And that dress at the far right is completely and utterly FREE. Yes! A wearable demo that can be all yours. So feel free to rummage through the rest of the styling information to feed your styling needs. Enjoy Lovies and, as always, Happy Shopping!{Outfit #1}Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Sunny {In Golden} <L$250>Make-Up Shadow #1: *LpD* Eyeshadow {In Golden} <OLD 2011 Group Gift>Make-Up Shadow & Lipstick: .:Glamorize:. Rival Black Combo <L$1>Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>Tongue: Tartessos Arts Sculpt Animated Tongue <L$1>Shoes & Earrings: [glow] studio Happy 2012! Pack <OLD Dressing Room Item>Dress: blah.BLAH.blah for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Tahari Studded Black DressStocking: Band*Lora for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Sport Lingerie Stocking {In Black}Tattoo: NEO** Knee Tattoo - Thank U <FREE>{Outfit #2}Hair: Magika - Bliss {In 01} <L$250>Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>Dress: .:Glow Designs:. for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Neon Stripes Dress {In Purple & Blue}Shoes: Loordes of London for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Burbleary Boots {In Blue}{Outfit #3}Hair Bow: Magika - Kawaii Bow <OLD Kawaii Fair 2012 Gift>Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Sunny {In Golden} <L$250>Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>Earrings: *N@N@* Crash Earring <Gift>Lip Make-Up: Essences - Wednesday Lipsticks Pack 01 *light skintones* {In 04 Matte} <L$299>Lollipop: LK Design - Drooling Lollypop {In Blueberry} <L$75>Dress: *Chandelle - Mesh Dress Jessy {In Spike Cross & White}Feet: MoYaz - Mesh Bare Feet <L$149>{Outfit #4}Hair: Magika - Bliss {In 01} <L$250>Face Paint: [H] Thraso Face Paint {In Full} <L$75>Make-Up Shadow: *LpD* Eyeshadow {In Golden} <OLD 2011 Group Gift>Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thick} <L$99>Lip Make-Up: {.essences.} Heidy Lipstick {In Nude}Dress: AnaLee Balut - CARIBA Gown <FREE Wearable Demo>
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“I Stay Down From Day One, So I Say…” #274
Holaaa Peapoders,
I have so much to share with you today so get a pen and paper for notes! At The Cosmopolitan Sale Room, they are having a massive sale through out and all items in store are for sale which are the majority of what I’m wearing, so I recommend checking it out BEFORE IT IS ALL GONE! You will be happy to see Loordes of London there and her offerings. Also Chandelle has this cute little dress/top that you can rock to bed or just talking around, with some pants hopefully…LOL! And that dress at the far right is completely and utterly FREE. Yes! A wearable demo that can be all yours. So feel free to rummage through the rest of the styling information to feed your styling needs. Enjoy Lovies and, as always, Happy Shopping!
{Outfit #1}
Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Sunny {In Golden} <L$250>
Make-Up Shadow #1: *LpD* Eyeshadow {In Golden} <OLD 2011 Group Gift>
Make-Up Shadow & Lipstick: .:Glamorize:. Rival Black Combo <L$1>
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>
Tongue: Tartessos Arts Sculpt Animated Tongue <L$1>
Shoes & Earrings: [glow] studio Happy 2012! Pack <OLD Dressing Room Item>
Dress: blah.BLAH.blah for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Tahari Studded Black Dress
Stocking: Band*Lora for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Sport Lingerie Stocking {In Black}
Tattoo: NEO** Knee Tattoo - Thank U <FREE>
{Outfit #2}
Hair: Magika - Bliss {In 01} <L$250>
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>
Dress: .:Glow Designs:. for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Neon Stripes Dress {In Purple & Blue}
Shoes: Loordes of London for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Burbleary Boots {In Blue}
{Outfit #3}
Hair Bow: Magika - Kawaii Bow <OLD Kawaii Fair 2012 Gift>
Hair: /Wasabi Pills/ Sunny {In Golden} <L$250>
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thin} <L$99>
Earrings: *N@N@* Crash Earring <Gift>
Lip Make-Up: Essences - Wednesday Lipsticks Pack 01 *light skintones* {In 04 Matte} <L$299>
Lollipop: LK Design - Drooling Lollypop {In Blueberry} <L$75>
Dress: *Chandelle - Mesh Dress Jessy {In Spike Cross & White}
Feet: MoYaz - Mesh Bare Feet <L$149>
{Outfit #4}
Hair: Magika - Bliss {In 01} <L$250>
Face Paint: [H] Thraso Face Paint {In Full} <L$75>
Make-Up Shadow: *LpD* Eyeshadow {In Golden} <OLD 2011 Group Gift>
Lashes: - DAMNED - Luscious Eyelash {In Thick} <L$99>
Lip Make-Up: {.essences.} Heidy Lipstick {In Nude}
Dress: AnaLee Balut - CARIBA Gown <FREE Wearable Demo>——-
-This is your girl signing off and into world. :P
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“Tell me Mr. Moore, Why everyone is on the floor? We can see your underwear from down here!” #273
Holaaa Peapoders,
Yet another week has past and it is time again for some new clothing for you guys to obsess over. XD! Coming from all over we have here 5 separate stores that have decided to do underwear this week and i must say, I love they way they look on me. 4 out of the above 5 are all at the Cosmopolitan Sale Room and will be on sale this weekend for you to pick up. From there we zoom over to *Chandelle who has released this little number for you ladies with Lolas, i’m sure you can appreciate that especially when there is a limited amount of clothing out for those puppies currently. Well, I will leave you ladies to it. Enjoy & Happy Shopping!
{From Left to Right}
blah.BLAH.blah for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - I’m A Diva Bra and Panties
Band*Lora for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Sport Lingerie {In Pink}
AsHmOoT for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Shiny Gold Bikini
Indyra Originals for Cosmopolitan Sale Room - Boudoir: Layla Babydoll {In Coffee}
*Chandelle - Sweetbody {In Black}——-
Musical inspiration for today’s post: Royal Republic - “Underwear”
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-This is your girl, signing off and into world. :O!
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![Repeat after me: ‘I desire new shoes!’ #272
Holaaa Peapoders,
So I’ve noticed the vast amounts of hats and shoes i’ve been collecting lately and thought i’d share them with you all tonight. From the amazing new ankle boot from Loordes of London to the denim wash pumps from :Madness: there is just so much awesome to go around. Let’s not forget that the adornments on my beautiful head are available for purchase by +:::+Natural+:::+, Beusy, and Xen’s Hats. I suggest you go treat yourself this late night before bed. ;] Enjoy and Happy Shopping!
{Set #1}Hat: Xen’s Hats - Pink HibiscusShoes: :Madness: Denim Pump {In Teal}——-{Set #2}Hat: Beusy - Head Scarf {In Pitch}Shoes: LOORDES OF LONDON for Fabfree’s Beach Party -Gower Sandal {In Scarlet}——-{Set #3}Hat: +:::+Natural+:::+ for WA Kyoto - atama no ue ni kinoko {In Kawaii Pink}Shoes: Loordes of London - The Bard {In Bby Blue&Pink}
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-This is your girl, signing off and into…bed. ｡◕‿◕｡](http://25.media.tumblr.com/7d61e652ec43a416d288b00c429b164b/tumblr_mo5zk03Jkq1rottt5o1_400.png)
Repeat after me: ‘I desire new shoes!’ #272
Holaaa Peapoders,
So I’ve noticed the vast amounts of hats and shoes i’ve been collecting lately and thought i’d share them with you all tonight. From the amazing new ankle boot from Loordes of London to the denim wash pumps from :Madness: there is just so much awesome to go around. Let’s not forget that the adornments on my beautiful head are available for purchase by +:::+Natural+:::+, Beusy, and Xen’s Hats. I suggest you go treat yourself this late night before bed. ;] Enjoy and Happy Shopping!
{Set #1}
Hat: Xen’s Hats - Pink Hibiscus
Shoes: :Madness: Denim Pump {In Teal}
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{Set #2}
Hat: Beusy - Head Scarf {In Pitch}
Shoes: LOORDES OF LONDON for Fabfree’s Beach Party -Gower Sandal {In Scarlet}
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{Set #3}
Hat: +:::+Natural+:::+ for WA Kyoto - atama no ue ni kinoko {In Kawaii Pink}
Shoes: Loordes of London - The Bard {In Bby Blue&Pink}——-
-This is your girl, signing off and into…bed. ｡◕‿◕｡
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Thoughts on Gender-Bending in SecondLife #271
It has come to my attention recently that there are quite a few individuals who gender-bend within Second Life. Now, gender-bending could mean quite frankly anything but a few examples include: A usually female avatar played by a real life female who sometimes dresses like a man, a usually male avatar played by a real life male who sometimes dresses like a woman, a female avatar played by a real life male, and a male avatar played by a real life female. {This is not to be confused with an androgynous individual or a-sexual individuals. <3} Playing one of these can sometimes stir up a bit of confusion and misunderstanding between the player and their companions.
Within Second Life, we are given a rare chance to be who ever we wish to be and that includes Role-playing or just simply being the opposite sex. Who are we to judge what a person’s preference when we are just as guilty of doing the same. Is it not the same thing when you decide to give you avatar blond hair knowing yours is red? Is it not the same when you make your avatar skinny when you know for a fact you are on the heavier side? It truly shouldn’t matter what is behind the computer but rather if you are comfortable enough to enjoy the company of the individual within Second Life.
I’ve spoken to both individuals who think this concept of gender-bending to be odd or weird while on the opposite side considers it a form of expression. Through out my entirety of Second Life, I have met individuals and even enjoyed the company of many a friend who would later tell me they were the opposites of who they played. For me it was no big deal because I had a friend who trusted me enough to tell me the truth about themselves and I should just respect who they are because they are beautiful no matter what. Even if they chose not to tell me, I should not pry or bother them because this is just who they are. But my reaction is few and far between. There can be a harsh backlash to what people see as different as well as ones who dislike being lied to for quite some time.
It has become clear that the best way to deal with this sort of reaction is to be upfront with it immediately because it just might actually hurt the relationship in the long run. But that doesn’t mean that if you are upfront that you will have a long list of friends because there will be people who avoid you like the plague; it isn’t their preference. To them, they are just missing out on what could have been a great relationship. Does it matter in the end who you look like? What ever happened to caring for the inside of an individual rather than what is presented in front of you?
In the end, judgment shouldn’t be passed.
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-This is your girl, signing off and into world. :D
